"We all have to acknowledge this is only one step," Obama said in the Oval Office, where he signed a memorandum extending some benefits, such as visitation or dependent-care rights, to the same-sex partners of gay federal employees.
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If it's good enough for federal employees, than why not ALL U.S. citizens?
If you tell one person in your life every day that you are glad for their presence, that's a lot of simple joy you can share.
If you start every conversation with a positive statement, you may find the tenor of your discussion shifting into one you will be glad to have had.
The first day of spring came with the shrill cry of my grackle friend from the top of the bird feeder. This is the third year he has greeted me, with his green iridescence on black. There is a group of them who come and go, but he is my loner. He comes to feed and to see me, watching me as I watch him, delicately balancing on one side of the bird feeder he is so much larger than. He tucks his tail feathers under him, resembling the rune Ken, a crooked 'c'. He then spreads those feathes out in a large rectangle to counterweight his perch. And he dances at my delight in his ingenuity. Other grackle kin will join himfeed and fly away, and he runs his beak along the feeder sill to push seed down for those not as graceful as he.
He is my treasure, and with him comes the crocuses and the shoots of tiger lilies, and sun to warm the earth for seeds to grow food for our home. As Grandmother Bear leaves her cave and Sister Snake wakes to a warming world, I send you Equinox blessings.
I had the pleasure of hearing Alice Walker speak at the
"And so our mothers and grandmothers have, more often than not anonymously, handed on the creative spark, the seed of the flower they themselves never hoped to see -- or like a sealed letter they could not plainly read."
"The quietly pacifist peaceful
always die
to make room for men
who shout."
"Tell the truth, have you ever found God in a church? I never did. I just found a bunch of folks hoping for him to show. Any God I ever felt in church I brought in with me. And I think all the other folks did too. They come to church to share God, not find God."
"Yes, Mother. I can see you are flawed. You have not hidden it. That is your greatest gift to me. "
by Ani DiFranco
Squint your eyes and look closer
I’m not between you and your ambition
I am a poster girl with no poster
I am thirty-two flavors and then some
And I’m beyond your peripheral vision
So you might want to turn your head
Cause someday you’re going to get hungry
And eat most of the words you just said
Both my parents taught me about good will
And I have done well by their names
Just the kindness I’ve lavished on strangers
Is more than I can explain
Still there’s many who’ve turned out their porch lights
Just so I would think they were not home
And hid in the dark of their windows
Til I’d passed and left them alone
And God help you if you are an ugly girl
Course too pretty is also your doom
Cause everyone harbors a secret hatred
For the prettiest girl in the room
And God help you if you are a pheonix
And you dare to rise up from the ash
A thousand eyes will smolder with jealousy
While you are just flying back
I’m not trying to give my life meaning
By demeaning you
And I would like to state for the record
I did everything that I could do
I’m not saying that I’m a saint
I just don’t want to live that way
No, I will never be a saint
But I will always say
Squint your eyes and look closer
I’m not between you and your ambition
I am a poster girl with no poster
I am thirty-two flavors and then some
And I’m beyond your peripheral vision
So you might want to turn your head
Cause someday you might find you’re starving
And eating all of the words you said
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I'm still thinking about BPC's Imbolg ritual. To all those who put their energy into it, thank you.
You Are a Visionary Soul |
![]() You are a curious person, always in a state of awareness. Connected to all things spiritual, you are very connected to your soul. You are wise and bright: able to reason and be reasonable. Occasionally, you get quite depressed and have dark feelings. You have great vision and can be very insightful. In fact, you are often profound in a way that surprises yourself. Visionary souls like you can be the best type of friend. You are intuitive, understanding, sympathetic, and a good healer. Souls you are most compatible with: Old Soul and Peacemaker Soul |
Your Soul is Welcoming |
![]() You are a warm hearted and open minded person. It's easy for you to forgive and forget. You are a grounded person, but you also leave room for imagination and dreams. You feet may be on the ground, but you're head is in the clouds. You believe that people see you as larger than life and important. While this is true, they also think you're a bit full of yourself. Your near future is still unknown, and a little scary. You'll get through wild times - and you'll textually enjoy it. For you, love is all about caring and comfort. You couldn't fall in love with someone you didn't trust. |
| 1. | Neo-Pagan (100%) |
| 2. | New Age (95%) |
| 3. | Unitarian Universalism (91%) |
| 4. | Mahayana Buddhism (84%) |
| 5. | Liberal Quakers (83%) |
| 6. | Theravada Buddhism (80%) |
| 7. | Secular Humanism (76%) |
| 8. | Mainline to Liberal Christian Protestants (70%) |
| 9. | Taoism (68%) |
| 10. | Scientology (65%) |
| 11. | New Thought (62%) |
| 12. | Reform Judaism (60%) |
| 13. | Jainism (57%) |
| 14. | Sikhism (54%) |
| 15. | Orthodox Quaker (50%) |
| 16. | Christian Science (Church of Christ, Scientist) (49%) |
| 17. | Hinduism (47%) |
| 18. | Nontheist (44%) |
| 19. | Baha'i Faith (40%) |
| 20. | Orthodox Judaism (31%) |
| 21. | Mainline to Conservative Christian/Protestant (23%) |
| 22. | Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (22%) |
| 23. | Islam (22%) |
| 24. | Seventh Day Adventist (16%) |
| 25. | Eastern Orthodox (14%) |
| 26. | Roman Catholic (14%) |
| 27. | Jehovah's Witness (12%) |
I take this quiz every six months or so, as my beliefs constantly evolve as i change and grow. You can find it at beliefnet.com, it's the belief-o-matic quiz, under the entertainment section. Interestingly enough, I was raised Roman Catholic and it's *way* down the list ;-)
This is the text of President Barack Obama's inaugural address, as prepared for delivery.
My fellow citizens:
I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.
Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.
So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.
That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.
These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land - a nagging fear that America's decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.
Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America - they will be met.
On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.
On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.
We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things.
The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.
In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted - for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things - some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.
For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life. For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.
For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn. Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.
This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions - that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.
For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act - not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology's wonders to raise health care's quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.
Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions - who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.
What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them - that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works - whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public's dollars will be held to account - to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day - because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.
Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control - and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous.
The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart - not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.
As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience's sake.
And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more. Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.
We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort - even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.
For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus - and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.
To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society's ills on the West - know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.
To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world's resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.
As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment - a moment that will define a generation - it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.
For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter's courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent's willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.
Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends - hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism - these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility - a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.
This is the price and the promise of citizenship.
This is the source of our confidence - the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.
This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed - why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.
So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America's birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:
"Let it be told to the future world...that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive...that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet [it]."
America. In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children's children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God's grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.
Your result for Survival Test...
Weekend Warrior
23% Death and 73% Survival!

Way to go, you are awesome! Although it has been a rough go, you probably have made it out in one piece...you are alive!
If you are a man you are sure to catch the eye of some fair maiden and sweep her off her feet with those skills...good going.
If you are a women look out, some man will snag you up for your willingness to get out there and rough it... Ooo Baby!
You sure do have some great knowledge, but you might want to brush up on a few things to be a "survivalist". Grab a buddy or two, take all you need to survive and then practice in a safe environment. You guys are amazing!
There are many resources on the web for wilderness survival, please check them out. However, my personal favorite is Hoods Woods.... but decide for yourself.
I would appreciate it if you could vote on my test. Thank you
There was a soldier in full battle fatigues and gear standing in our living room last night. I could see him in my periphery before I felt him. It was just an impression of knowing what he looked like. His energy is very respectful that this is my house and he is grateful that I am willing to try to help him. I feel like I am going to come in contact with someone he wants to contact. But I haven't gotten more than that. I do believe he's a contemporary though, as it looks like he has desert fatigues on.
Samhain night is not a time for grieving, although sadness may spill out. With the spirits so close, we do not wish that painful energy upon them for we do not mourn the 'passing over' of their spirit; it is the loss of the them we grieve. Be careful with your emotions and be open. Tonight is a time for honor, reverence, laughter, and community.
If you are ready, compassionately, forgive those ancestors whose deeds were dark, for they are still part of the river that flows and became you. On this night, fences can be mended and the restless ones can at last find peace.
For those who have gone before.
For those whose names live in our hearts and dance upon our lips.
For those whose names have been forgotten, lost in the sea of time.
For those whose bones lie above and below the earth.
For those whose ashes have travelled on the winds.
To you, from the living.
Ase.
Saralyn Shen, October 31, 2008
Got home to some angry kitties who showed their feelings by leaving dried puke everywhere (although I believe that one to be all Zami's doing). There were also trails and pools of litter on every blanket and piece of furniture. A few days up my ass and they'll be back to normal.
I slept for 12 hours and got up for 8 and slept for 9 more. I feel more like myself. Still a little tired, but my body doesn't hurt as much as it did last year, which is curious as I was much more active... I went deeper into the work this Twilight. There will be more about that later, I'm sure.
To all who travelled those woods with me that night, welcome home.
- The more Metta work that I do and the more I curb my old tendency to jump to assumptions and conclusions with only a tid-bit of factual information, the more it seems to bother me in people around me.
- I've worked very hard to control and understand my anger, so I know that other people can do it too.
- I've always been able to see both possible sides of a story, known or unknown, and for a while I stopped caring about both sides. But I've recultivated that ability and discovered that in every story... there is rarely just one bad guy. Which makes it easier to stand on the line between them and point out truths without judgement.
But the Truth morphs and shifts- it has no end point. I think that is what frightens people. People want there to be a right or wrong. We do a good job of talking in shades of grey, but we don't actually look for them. There is way too much of "don't bring that up or they'll never forgive you" which throws up a giant wall. When did we stop investigating the truth? Why would we assume that someone was being mean based on someone else's say-so? Why shouldn't we confront that person and just ask them? And I include myself in this group. I am still learning as well. Even if you do take those steps, all you can do is put yourself out there. You can't control how someone responds. But at least you tried...
What I have discovered for myself is that the further into Metta that I get, the harder-edged the world around me feels. And the more I cry at how much hate and negativity is volleyed back and forth carelessly. As an afterthought. I'm no saint, and I have done my fair share of hurting-people-and-saying-things-that-I-d
One of our inmates, Phillie, said that every night he goes through what he did that day and what he said that day, and he goes over whether or not his actions and words helped or hurt him as a pagan man. Because he wants to better himself. That exact thing is the foundation of lovingkindness...
I do believe that it's one thing to discuss a person's actions against me- though I do try not to leave my own culpability out of the story. If someone has hurt me, I have a right to share that story. I don't think sharing the story is the same thing as judging them for their actions. And I know that I can hear the story of someone who has hurt a friend, without me deciding I don't like that person anymore either. I can't know why the offender did what they did or what pre-empted the offense. Because I wasn't there.
And all of this is what I'm working towards, where my path is heading. It feels right. And every morning, I feel better... from the inside out.
~~~ paul newman ~ (1925-2008)~~~
"I beg you... to have patience with everything unresolved in your heart
and try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms
or books written in a very foreign language. Don't search for the answers,
which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them.
And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now.
Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually,
without even noticing it, live your way into the answer..."
~Rainer Maria Rilke


